Ghanaian actress, Moesha Boduong has advised ladies agaisnt sleeping with different men. This she did via a new social media post.
According to Moesha Boduong who once admitted on CNN that she sleeps with a sugar daddy to pay her bills, sleeping with different men will never make a lady rich.
She concluded by advising against believing everything read on social media.
The social rules have to do with money issues. In societies where status depends on purity and making sure your children are genetically related to you, it matters that women are pure and unsullied.
Nowadays, that has transferred to social notions about being "good" and "bad," which are related to status, but in a different way. Most people want to have status, but they also want to have fun. Since having fun is often looked down on, most people act pure in public and have fun in private. It's a form of hypocrisy, but it's how these things tend to be managed.
If you're an activist and want to work for social change, then I would be totally up front with your sexuality and experimentation and make no apologies for it. However, if you want to protect yourself from the reactions of others, then I would be careful, and try to keep your sexual experimentation secret from most people. And of course, remain safe. Use condoms and all that.
Although, don't be surprised if you find urges to be wild and unsafe taking you over. Part of the fun of sex is passion, but passion can make you do stupid things. There is a delicate balance between allowing yourself to be wild enough to really enjoy yourself, yet also reining yourself in sufficiently that you don't risk your life.
According to Moesha Boduong who once admitted on CNN that she sleeps with a sugar daddy to pay her bills, sleeping with different men will never make a lady rich.
She concluded by advising against believing everything read on social media.
The social rules have to do with money issues. In societies where status depends on purity and making sure your children are genetically related to you, it matters that women are pure and unsullied.
Nowadays, that has transferred to social notions about being "good" and "bad," which are related to status, but in a different way. Most people want to have status, but they also want to have fun. Since having fun is often looked down on, most people act pure in public and have fun in private. It's a form of hypocrisy, but it's how these things tend to be managed.
If you're an activist and want to work for social change, then I would be totally up front with your sexuality and experimentation and make no apologies for it. However, if you want to protect yourself from the reactions of others, then I would be careful, and try to keep your sexual experimentation secret from most people. And of course, remain safe. Use condoms and all that.Although, don't be surprised if you find urges to be wild and unsafe taking you over. Part of the fun of sex is passion, but passion can make you do stupid things. There is a delicate balance between allowing yourself to be wild enough to really enjoy yourself, yet also reining yourself in sufficiently that you don't risk your life.
Comments
Sex! Sex!! Sex!!!
That's what a black man knows
Have you tried eating bread and coconut... Then you'll know sex is overrated!!
It'll only make your toto confused!
See breast like two bags of beans!